It's really simple and painfully sad Skye. Literally the love of my life, like me, was raised in a strict binary world. We are still together as I sloooooooowly transition. Neither of us have quit each other yet. She "accepts" that I am transgender but has a problem seeing me female and can't accept me publicly going out as Emma. I am trying to figure out if that is my only choice because that path will probably lose her and many in my life.