Thank you for writing this Kalia. As a transgender woman I wrote a few articles here that parallel your writing but from the "other" side:

https://medium.com/bitchy/as-a-transgender-woman-can-i-use-the-womans-bathroom-please-484dc520f42d

https://medium.com/bitchy/as-a-transgender-woman-this-is-all-i-want-from-cis-women-f4e952c67d0e

https://medium.com/prismnpen/transgender-common-sense-why-so-lacking-in-society-today-f85404a781ea

I hope you find them worth reading.