What I meant is that I am still stealth for the rest of the year for work. Given that I am 65, some believe that I have benefited from a lifetime of being male. My title was mocking them, hence the tiny little male symbols.

Capricious I am so sorry that you have been attacked. I agree that trans women have it far worse that cis woman. I worry that I will suffer the same safety issues that you are experiencing and wonder if fully transitioning is worth it. Then I just call myself a coward...